Domestic Violence Defense Attorney – Hawaii & Honolulu

Domestic violence charges in Hawaii can change your life overnight. If you’ve been accused of hurting or harassing a spouse, partner, or family member, you may face immediate consequences—like arrest, a court-issued restraining order, loss of firearm rights, and separation from your home or children. At Jason Z. Say’s law office, we build strategic, fast-moving defenses for clients facing these serious allegations in Honolulu and across Oahu.



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When an Argument Becomes a Criminal Charge

Under Hawaii law, “domestic violence” includes physical abuse, threats, harassment, and emotional intimidation between people in a close relationship—married couples, dating partners, family members, or roommates. Sometimes a single call to police leads to arrest, even without physical injuries. You may also face a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) that prevents contact with your loved ones or returning home.



Jason has helped clients respond to both the criminal and civil aspects of these cases. Whether you were wrongly accused or things escalated unexpectedly, you have the right to tell your side—and the right to fight back in court.


Fighting Domestic Violence Allegations Takes Strategy

Domestic abuse cases often hinge on conflicting stories. Police reports might only reflect one version of events. The alleged victim may exaggerate—or have a motive, like influencing a divorce or custody dispute. Our job is to challenge weak evidence, expose inconsistencies, and present your truth with clarity and strength.



We dig deep into:

  • Bodycam or 911 recordings

  • Texts, emails, or voicemails

  • Medical records (or lack thereof)

  • Witness testimony and surveillance

  • Patterns of behavior—on both sides

And if your rights were violated—such as being questioned without being advised—you can count on us to raise that before the court.


Restraining Orders & Violations: A Second Front in the Battle

In many cases, a criminal charge is accompanied by a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO). These civil orders can ban you from your own home, prohibit contact with your children, and lead to automatic penalties if violated.



Violating a TRO in Hawaii is a separate criminal offense—with mandatory jail time in many cases. That means even one text message or misstep can compound the legal trouble you're already facing. Jason not only defends against domestic violence charges but also represents clients at TRO hearings and in restraining order violation cases.


A Conviction Follows You Long After Court Ends

Domestic violence convictions carry harsh consequences:

  • Jail time, often mandatory for repeat offenses

  • Court-ordered domestic violence intervention classes

  • Loss of gun rights under both state and federal law

  • Barriers to employment, housing, or professional licensing

  • Major impact on divorce, custody, or immigration matters

This isn’t just about fighting a charge—it’s about protecting your name, your record, and your ability to move forward with your life.


Why Clients Trust Jason Z. Say with Domestic Abuse Defense

Jason has handled domestic violence cases from both sides. That includes defending against false allegations and, when appropriate, helping victims get legal protection. This broad perspective allows him to anticipate the prosecution’s approach and counter it effectively.



He approaches every case with:

  • Judgment-free, confidential counsel

  • A deep understanding of Hawaii’s family dynamics and legal process

  • Relentless courtroom preparation and trial skill

  • A calm but aggressive approach that keeps you in control

Whether you’re a local resident, a military member stationed on Oahu, or someone in a difficult relationship, we’ll give your side of the story the strength it deserves.


Why It Matters to Get It Right

Whether you’re trying to walk away from legal action or clear your name, navigating Hawaii’s restraining order process correctly is critical. Dismissing a TRO the wrong way—or taking action before it's dismissed—can lead to complications or even criminal charges.



We help people on both sides of these situations. If you filed a restraining order and now want it dismissed, or if you’re fighting to clear your record from a false or unfair TRO, we’re here to help you resolve the issue legally, quickly, and professionally.

Call Now – Early Defense Makes a Difference

If you've been arrested, served with a TRO, or know you're being investigated for domestic abuse, don’t wait. The earlier we can intervene, the more options we have to protect you. Call our Honolulu office today for a confidential consultation—nights and weekends included. You don’t have to face this alone.