How to Get a Restraining Order in Hawaii
Facing abuse, threats, or harassment can feel overwhelming—but legal protection is possible. If you're wondering how to get a restraining order in Hawaii, this guide walks you through the steps, from petition to court hearing. Whether you're in Honolulu, Maui, or another island community, this process is designed to help protect you and those you care about.
Do You Need a Restraining Order?
If someone is threatening your safety—whether through physical abuse, stalking, harassment, or credible threats—you may be eligible for a temporary restraining order (TRO). In Hawaii, you don’t need to be related to or living with someone to seek protection. The law allows you to file a restraining order against a spouse, partner, neighbor, or acquaintance if a pattern of abuse or harassment exists.
Understanding the Types of Protective Orders
In Hawaii, the type of restraining order depends on your relationship to the person you're filing against:
- Domestic Abuse Protective Orders apply when the person is a current or former spouse, partner, household member, or family member.
- Injunctions Against Harassment are used when the person is not related—such as a neighbor, coworker, or stranger.
Knowing the right type of order will help determine which court you file in—Family Court or District Court.
Step 1: Prepare Your Petition
Start by completing the proper petition forms, available at your local courthouse or online through the Hawaii State Judiciary. Your petition should clearly describe what has happened—specific dates, incidents of abuse or harassment, and any credible threats made against you. Be detailed. Supporting documentation such as police reports, screenshots of texts or emails, and medical records can strengthen your case. It’s important to include everything that might help a judge understand why you need protection.
Step 2: Filing & the Temporary Restraining Order
Once your petition is complete, file it at the courthouse for your area. For example, if you live in Honolulu or Ewa Beach, you'll file at the Honolulu District or Family Court. If you're on Maui or the Big Island, you'll go through your respective island's courthouse.
In many cases, a judge can review your petition the same day. If they believe there’s an immediate threat, a temporary order may be granted without the other party present (this is called an ex parte TRO). If granted, the order will be served to the respondent by local police.
Step 3: The Hearing
Within about two weeks, a court hearing will be scheduled. Both you and the person you filed against (the respondent) must attend. At this stage, a judge may ask if both parties agree to an order or if a contested hearing is needed. If so, the court will take testimony and review evidence from both sides.
Bring any relevant documents or witnesses that support your story. Having a legal advocate like Jason Say on your side can make all the difference—he can help ensure your case is presented clearly, thoroughly, and with confidence.
Step 4: After the Hearing – What Happens Next
If the judge finds there is enough evidence, they may issue a long-term protective order. This could last anywhere from six months to several years and may include restrictions such as no contact, physical distance requirements, or prohibitions on firearms. If the request is denied, we’ll talk with you about safety planning and other legal options. Remember, violating a restraining order is a criminal offense in Hawaii.
Why Legal Help Makes a Difference
Filing a restraining order can be emotionally and legally complex. Many petitions are denied because of incomplete paperwork or missing details. Jason Z. Say has helped countless petitioners throughout Oahu and Maui secure protective orders. His experience representing both sides gives him insight into how to build a strong case and anticipate how the respondent may challenge your request.
You don’t have to go through this process alone. Jason is here to guide you with care, urgency, and clarity every step of the way.
Helpful Resources in Hawaii
We recommend reaching out to your local courthouse or domestic violence support agency for in-person help if you need immediate protection. While we don’t link offsite, we can provide the latest forms and resources during your consultation. If you’re unsure where to start, contact us and we’ll walk you through your options.
Start Your Petition with Confidence
If you're ready to take legal steps toward protection, we're here to help. Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation. We’ll make sure your voice is heard and your petition is prepared thoroughly from the start.